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Women and their sexuality have never been celebrated. This topic has been viewed as non existent. This is due to the fact that women have been viewed as reproduction instruments, only to bring forth offsprings. Many women also prefer to pretend that they have no sexuality. Its a shame. This is a result of lack of pride in themselves obviously. Few women are open about it and talk about it. Some talk about it as taboo. They are stuck in history not in the present days.  Historical tendencies vs modern tendencies. That was when things were never discussed and children were told that babies come from aeroplanes. Should young ones dare speak about it they'd be shunned and ridiculed as if they made a suggestion to kill someone. It is as if it's some unholy subject of sorts. Parents would rather wait until their girls got pregnant to be comfortable to talk to them about it. It's a shame. Shyness of what one engages in themselves. Today, modern women talk about it even to their yo...

This can be very intriguing. Naturally, it would be expected of a woman to support another woman in different aspects and not judge, hate, ridicule or even call names. But, women can have a whole longer agenda privately than they can admit. Women can pull each other down Yes, reasons at face value, can sound genuinely based enough but going deeper, a lot can be uncovered. First of all, women have a lot to deal with. Expectedly then, this lot to deal with, this heavily laden itinerary would disallow a woman time to diss, to look down , to tear down another woman. It would be expected that a woman would be too self absorbed, too busy and "too classy" to go that low. Believe it or not woman can find all the time despite this busy schedule to spread all the negative energy towards other women. Women are supposedly pre occupied and self indulged with a whole lot of good, better and best things. How do they then find the time to go about their poisonous agenda? Unfortunately they d...

Women can and are able to date a number of men at a single instance. This is affectionately called multi tasking. It is caused by issues as follows: (i) Overstressed women. It can be a form of stress relief. How? Women can find themselves in unhappy relationships. Their love, care and attachments to the other  partners might keep them from leaving, thus commiting some form of adultery. (ii) It can be due to underlying psychological issues but this is not confirmed, just my opinion. It could be much the same as the above but its handling can portray it as different. First of all people in this kind of partnership seem well in love, happy and cooperating well with each other. They seem to be in a perfectly loving and respectful partnership but what causes the woman to look beyond what she has? These are questions outsiders/onlookers prefer to find answers to without having any knowledge of any facts. In this type of partnership, they prefer to simply label the woman a whore. Fair or ...

You can either be described as one of the two: She is at peace within herself and with herself.  She is in conflict within herself and with herself.  Woman of peace is life, embraces nature. She is humble but knows herself and stand up for herself and very genuine for all she cares. Woman of conflict believes that life revolves around her and rejects nature. She is disdainful and has no idea who she is, seeks to control life and artificial. You are never born with these attributes but they are simply chosen by one's set of thought processes. You can be a woman of peace, by naturally looking at everything and creating peace in it or through it. Yes disruptions come and go but how you go through determihes the woman that you are. You can go through conflict but how you remain after all the conflict determines who you are. Going through fire makes you no fire but a burnt victim. You choose to live as a burn victim or whatever you are or decide to make it look effortlessly easy to...

Oh definitely wombman. As the writers suggest when they write about humans they'll always refer to man. Why is there man in woman? All living individuals are refered to as man of course. To completely find the actual historical meaning of this, we'd have to consult a number of search engines, but we don't have that time now, do we. This is my view.  This kind of man has a womb. Has borne out of her womb another/other human/s. She is a man in a body of a bearer. She bears offsprings. She bears the future generation. She is still a man.. What's this so  important about this man that we cannot stop talking about even if we try to mind our own business? Why does he seem to control our thought processes? He's there in every conversation! Our conversations becomes dull if we leave him out of it! It's only because without him there wouldn't be any bearing. Offsprings get to be borne because these two individuals meet together to form this little human who one day w...

Men can do anything, well that is a known thing. They can do anything for no particular reason. They have been known to do things. Doing things has always been their thing. Women on the other hand have not been known to do things. As stated in my previous blog, they have been insignificant more like almost non existent.  When women started doing things they became determined with cetain specific reasons to do them. Women can give up everything with a good reason in mind for the better or worse but mostly for the good. Women can build a home to fill it with love Women can marry a man to obtain a status They can find employment to maintain their families and improve their lifestyles They can support one another to bring out the best in each other They can nurture their offspring to give them a future They can support their familues to give them their independence in the future They can snatch each other's man just to have one. They can pretend not to see something to avoid a conflict...

It is such a sad situation to even discuss this. Women and confidence. Women and confidence are supposedly a unit. They should be more than a pair but one entity. They supposedly go hand in hand.  Unfortunately and most sadly so, they are not. They are two different items that go different directions. Women seemingly do not realise that confidence belongs to them. They allow it to flee in its own direction. Women were historically not allowed to have confidence. It was a tough endevour to have them recognised as a people even biblically so. They were commodities to be purchased and used as desired with no concern over what they actually needed if ever realised. They were not considered as a people who mattered. To this day they have been paid dowry for in marriages. This is an exchange transaction. This without their consultation or consent  on what they want or what they think. A young woman belongs to their family and it is up to their family to finally decide on what to do ...

Women are the real strength in their households. They hold their households together. When a household fails, it means the woman has given up. Woman can either build or bring down a household. Emotionally, women are not the strongest. They can present a variety of emotions within a short space of time. These have the ability to drive to a positive direction or even the demise of that household.  Do women survive on support? Different strokes for different folks. Some do but some are very emotionally independent. Emotional independence is key for a woman who needs to direct her household to a lengthy future. Giving up is never an option but a switching off of a lifeline to the livelihood of a number of souls. Imagine those lost souls without any defined direction. Lost hope and fumbling becomes the new order. Trying to find their feet on slippery new surfaces. How sad, the emotional death that brings to life all kinds of bitterness. A bitterness that will hang over them like a slow ...