Women and basis of their attitudes towards each other

This can be very intriguing.
Naturally, it would be expected of a woman to support another woman in different aspects and not judge, hate, ridicule or even call names.
But, women can have a whole longer agenda privately than they can admit.

Women can pull each other down
Yes, reasons at face value, can sound genuinely based enough but going deeper, a lot can be uncovered.
First of all, women have a lot to deal with. Expectedly then, this lot to deal with, this heavily laden itinerary would disallow a woman time to diss, to look down , to tear down another woman.
It would be expected that a woman would be too self absorbed, too busy and "too classy" to go that low.
Believe it or not woman can find all the time despite this busy schedule to spread all the negative energy towards other women.

Women are supposedly pre occupied and self indulged with a whole lot of good, better and best things.
How do they then find the time to go about their poisonous agenda?
Unfortunately they do and this serves no positive purpose.
It just serves to cover up what woman is going through, sadly and never prepared to admit to herself.
Woman would rather choose to be bitter and pour all this as hatred for other women.

To get much more deeper, I'll illustrate this with a personal experience. I choose to generalise many times but a personal touch here will not do any harm but clarify meaning of topic.

There was this one time when there was this woman , not necessarily a close friend but just an acquaintance then.
She simply decided to choose to be my rival by making me her object of misunderstanding, hatred and general rudeness.
As far as I knew her she had a son and a boyfriend, living together with.
It happened that people would ask me questions about knowing her then they would start talking about her relationship with the guy. I'd be less interested as I knew too little about her then.
They, nonetheless would tell me that she was very close with her partner. I was glad to know about that as this was the case with me and my partner as well.
Whenever you saw either of us, the other would definitely be somewhere around. We were at the peak of our love.

It so happened that I did not have positive footing with the woman, initially. I believed she wanted more than I could offer her, my time.
She then suddenly became mean and distant, disrespecting as well. I did not take her seriously in this as I just recognised it as just pure immaturity.
She then got married. I congratulated her, excited about it and thought she'd find peace, that we'd find peace together.
It wasn't long before I noticed that she was involved in extra marital hide and seek and was not even good in this.
She would hide from me and make this deliberately obvious. This would irritate me as I did not find any reason that would qualify me as one whom she'd had to account to.
Had she acted normal I wouldn't even had noticed anything perculiar. It could have looked like a colleague or a financial consultant or anyone unimportant, but she had to force me to take note.
The marriage did not last longer than 3 months. She moved out and left the partner. We both attended classes together in the evenings after work, as she had decided to join me.
I invited her over to talk with her and she told me she would not be returning any time sooner or ever. She was done with him. I did not believe this.

I tried to retrace my thoughts as I went back home. I realised that since I had met with them, there was trouble in paradise, already. The love, care and everything that other friends confessed to know was no longer there anymore.
So the bitterness she had towards me was simply because I reminded her of where she used to be herself.
Unfortunately I had not idea how she had lost it as I was not even there when it started.
We kept the friendship until...
We were now more friendlier, polite and civilised with each other.
Great womanship at the end of it all. 
Not forgetting that not very long after the seperation she bought herself a car and later a house at the same city I had. 
Woman power, boom✊👊🎓📚👠💄




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