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It is such a sad situation to even discuss this. Women and confidence. Women and confidence are supposedly a unit. They should be more than a pair but one entity. They supposedly go hand in hand.  Unfortunately and most sadly so, they are not. They are two different items that go different directions. Women seemingly do not realise that confidence belongs to them. They allow it to flee in its own direction. Women were historically not allowed to have confidence. It was a tough endevour to have them recognised as a people even biblically so. They were commodities to be purchased and used as desired with no concern over what they actually needed if ever realised. They were not considered as a people who mattered. To this day they have been paid dowry for in marriages. This is an exchange transaction. This without their consultation or consent  on what they want or what they think. A young woman belongs to their family and it is up to their family to finally decide on what to do ...

Women are the real strength in their households. They hold their households together. When a household fails, it means the woman has given up. Woman can either build or bring down a household. Emotionally, women are not the strongest. They can present a variety of emotions within a short space of time. These have the ability to drive to a positive direction or even the demise of that household.  Do women survive on support? Different strokes for different folks. Some do but some are very emotionally independent. Emotional independence is key for a woman who needs to direct her household to a lengthy future. Giving up is never an option but a switching off of a lifeline to the livelihood of a number of souls. Imagine those lost souls without any defined direction. Lost hope and fumbling becomes the new order. Trying to find their feet on slippery new surfaces. How sad, the emotional death that brings to life all kinds of bitterness. A bitterness that will hang over them like a slow ...